HEALTH TIPS, GUIDES AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

Different Aspects of a Relationship

What is maturity in a relationship? How can we be honest in a relationship? How can we make a true balance between Sex & relationship? We misjudge maturity with knowledge and we misjudge honesty with truthfulness, similarly we equate sex with our relationship. All these things are as wrong as we think that they are true. A common question is why two people decides to live together? If they live together to breed children then they can do that randomly as well, there is no need to commit our life with someone.

Again if the answer is to satisfy our physical need then also we can do this without marriage. There is always an option for marriage until we come to a true conclusion. We come to live with each other, leaving the entire world and sacrificing some of our habits. We do so just to make ourselves happy because we are meant to live alone in our whole life. We need a companion who will remain with us throughout our life to help us, to sustain us.

We can understand this if we assume ourselves as one half of a ring, in that case we are only half and we will need other half to complete each other. This is a simple contract and there are certain rules and regulations attached with it. The second thing is importance of sex in any relationship and the answer of this question would be very basic and simple one. People have sex not only to satisfy their physical need but also to attach with their partner on a more core level. Hence if we do not have sex in our relationship then we should better start it because it is detrimental for our relationship.

We need to value the requirement of our partner, but it does not mean that we should let them do anything they want and we should not interfere. Many a times we do not comment on our partner’s habit or work. We do so because we do not want to hurt their feelings. If we will not comment then they will think that we do not care about them and this will be very difficult for both of us. Communication is what is needed in case of relationships which do not have any spark in it. We need to lighten up this spark so that our relationship get brightened and remain same as ever.