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Reasons of Breaking up a Relationship

Sex & relationship has always been a favorite topic, which is being discussed by all the societies around the world. Thousands of researches have been conducted upon its name and a number of varied results have come but even today no one can claim with certainty about the true nature of the relationship between the two different genders. It is customary for two people to fall in love and come into a relationship but it is very uncommon for them to realize what it takes to sustain the relationship.

Like any other thing, the relationships have no glorious paths, as you will definitely face some kind of difficulty every now and then. It is your responsibility to cope with them but you should be the consent of your beloved otherwise a good measure will also turn wrong. Whenever two people are in a process of separation after their relationship has run its course then all they think about is the happier times. They try to imagine how well the situations were earlier and how worse it has become now. But even then, instead of finding the real problem, they adhere to blame themselves and forgive the other one. You cannot take anything for granted, least of all your relationship.

Most relationships fall because of the lack of the enthusiasm in them which creeps in as the time passes. We are in such a hurry that we do not bother to cure it and instead we try to impose our own solutions over the real ones. What is the main reason behind the fall of every relationship? Who is truly responsible for that? The main problem is the illusion that we have in our mind and this illusion creates a lot of problem. We think that our life is perfect and hence our relationship is perfect as well, generally we don’t have enough time to analyze that. Ever since coming together, we impose our illusion over the other and try to think that the illusion is true.

This is done by everyone who does not have a realistic approach towards the life. We love each other and we care for them but after a time our illusion starts fading. Then we come to see the truth behind the mask and we are shocked by what we see. We usually blame the other person for this because we believe that they created this mask but we forget the truth that it was us only who were happy with the mask. This is the time when the decision is taken as to whether the relationship would sustain or whether it will deteriorate.