January 2, 2011
Some Simple Methods of Making Him/Her Feel Special
Everybody loves to be treated special now and then. We appreciate it when that someone special in our lives makes us feel especially dear, wanted, and even needed in their world. It is a two way street and when the right person is involved you will find that giving will result in getting back far more than you have given them in the way of devotion and love. What can you possibly do to give that “someone special” the royal treatment they deserve?
Gifts of love aimed to please your man
Men are easy! They respond to kindness and the little things truly do mean a lot to them.
1) Complement him on his appearance, how the very smell of him turns you on!
2) Let him know how much you’ve missed him when he’s gone from your side, even if only briefly.
3) Do not put the problems of your day on him as soon as he comes home. Allow him to unwind and relax. Fix him a drink or maybe an appetizer before dinner. If you have young children maybe you can keep them with a sitter now and then so you can both relax together.
4) Buy him little gifts like cuff links, after shave, or maybe even an earring (if he’s into that sort of thing).
5) Give him a neck rub or back rub when he’s stressed. Give him little gift cards promising future massages or special sexual favors that he can redeem any time.
6) Let him know how special he is to you simply by telling him so… often.
7) Flirt with him when you are out socially. Let the world know he’s your man and you are truly devoted to his every wish.
8) Share your emotional language with him but keep it brief or he become distracted. Men are doers far more than talkers.
9) When with family or friends never fail to brag about your special man and how good he is to you and for you.
10) If he has a hobby let him indulge himself with it. You will have plenty of time for your own individual pastimes as time goes by.
Shower her with gifts (not necessarily the expensive kind)
Women can easily be made to feel special and adored and it need not be expensive. All we ask for is the security of knowing our man will be there for us and will provide for us when we need it. Most women today are independent enough to not worry about having a man to take care of them financially. But the emotional side of us craves the attention and knowledge that the man in our lives will be there for us. Having a man who gives little gifts now and then tightens the bonds of love.
1) Tell her how much you love her. This seems like a “no brainer” but men often take it for granted his woman knows he loves her so seldom says it. Tell her loud and often that there is no one else on the planet as special as she is.
2) Showing interest in what she has interest in shows her you do notice that she has her own hobbies and activities beyond simply being your woman.
3) Give hugs often! You don’t need to wait for sex to simply hold her close and kiss her deeply. Do it when you are out with friends to let them all know how special your lady is. She will beam when her girlfriend looks on admiringly.
4) Give her a back massage, foot rub, neck rub; even rub her temples if she complains of a headache. Give her gift cards pledging your undivided attention and more massages whenever she feels the need.
5) Make and maintain eye contact when you are having a conversation. Look deeply into her eyes and mentally tell her how much you love the way she looks.
6) Brag about your woman when you are out with friends. She will love the attention and probably reciprocate with some complements thrown your way.
7) Little things like holding her had when you are out in public will tell her how special she is. Guide her by your fingertips at the small of her back for an intimate contact while appearing to be nonchalant, play footsie while dining out, wink at her and flirt outrageously (with her only) and you will both have your own little secret love affair going on.
8) Be a sympathetic ear when she’s feeling down. When you can get her to open up and share her feelings your relationship will flourish.
9) Give small gifts, often. They don’t need to be expensive because it is the thought that counts most. And size doesn’t matter at all. A box of candy, an “I love you” card you made yourself, tickets to the theater or movie she wants to see. Any gift shows her she is thought of and special.
10) Allow her some space if she wants it. Don’t smother her by being overly protective and clingy. Encourage her to spend time with her girlfriends now and then. She will appreciate her time with you even more.
It takes two to tango – also to become one half of a lifetime couple
The key here is to respect each other and show it as often as possible. Whenever two individuals become one as in a marriage, there are lots of differences to be worked out. Look at couples who have been married 30 or 40 or even 50 years and you can see they have something special going on that is both intimate and individual. Marriage is a bond and a commitment but it is also the best life has to offer.
